“You don’t have to be over-the-top to be fierce…you just
have to feel fierce!”
-Me
Ok,
So I had it in my head to go out alone for Valentine’s Day
weekend.
I had picked out a dress.
Envisioned some shoes I saw in Marshall’s last week to go
with my dress.
Gotten my hair done.
Gotten my nails and brows done.
…But I stood myself up L
…
By the time I finished straightening up my apartment,
getting dressed, taking outfit pics, hitting up a couple of sales ....
And checking
back in with friends that wanted to hang out WAAAAY earlier that day, I missed
my date… I ended up hanging out with a good friend of mine, having dinner and watching
the Beyoncé Documentary on HBO, which was AWESOME!
But, I AM going to plan to take myself out again.
That time I will NOT miss.
Annnnd, to hold myself accountable I will post my date
outfit on the blog.
I was recently reminded that I don’t need another person to
make me feel special.
Sure, all of Gods creatures want to be acknowledged and
validated. It’s part of our genetic make-up, especially women.
But women sometimes self-sacrifice with no acknowledgement…
No validation…
& all that’s left is an empty vessel because you gave
all you had to work, to school, to your significant other, to FINDING a
significant other, to friends, & to your kids….
I refuse to live like that!
I am special.
I am fierce.
No matter how my weight fluctuates, despite my flaws,
despite my mistakes and imperfections. ... Despite REJECTION!
I am special.
I am fierce.
I am BRAVE!
Gold Hoops: Beauty Supply
Emerald-Stone Chandelier Necklace: Forever 21 ($1.00 via accessory sale)
Acid Wash Denim Shirt, Distressed Denim Jacket, Black Leggings: Forever 21+
Emerald Cap-Toe Pumps: Target
Check out my video entitled: "On the Couch with Tammie" about a haul of goodies from some of my favorite stores...Some of the items in the vid have ALREADY been featured! #Shoyourite ....
Check out my video entitled: "On the Couch with Tammie" about a haul of goodies from some of my favorite stores...Some of the items in the vid have ALREADY been featured! #Shoyourite ....
beautiful post!!! U are all of the above and I need those shoes maam!!!
ReplyDeleteI am buying more pumps with the classic silhouette...They are sooo classic.
DeleteYour "Halle Berry, she so fine" pose is ALL THAT!! Cute outfit!
ReplyDeleteHow much did I love your video?!?!? Thanks for sharing! One of these days I will get over the fact that I don't like my recorded voice & I will get on the vlog train.
I just tried something new...well...new to me!
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